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Beyond Imagination

 

You cannot become a positive thinker, unless you have abundant love in your heart. You cannot be positive towards people and events, unless love flows from you unconditionally and engulfs everything that comes in your way. You cannot love others unconditionally, unless you are free and detached and ready to forego your own interests for the sake of others. Love is a permanent guest of the heart that does not suffer from the urge to hurt, retaliate and seek revenge. A selfish mind can only be a negative mind. It may pretend to be virtuous, but it cannot hide the hideousness of its vanity and the vulgarity of its hypocrisy. To be positive to others you have to learn to be positive towards yourself first. You must be ready and wiling to forgive yourself, heal your past and accept yourself unconditionally without a negative thought. Only he who loves himself unconditionally can love others unconditionally and show positive attitude towards himself and towards others.

Positive thoughts thrive in a mind that is free from all petty prejudices and preferences in life. A prejudiced mind can only be positive towards its own prejudices and venomous towards the rest. A mind that is beset with doubts and confusion cannot be positive. A mind that is driven by fear and uncertainty cannot appreciate the sweetness of a positive thought. To be mentally positive one must have abundant faith in oneself and in the Supreme Self. One must pour the light of faith into the darkness of ones fears and melt them away. In truth only he who is free from fear, from want and from attachment, with a mind that is full of faith and conviction and full of unconditional love and compassion can have a positive attitude towards himself, towards life and towards others.

More Friendship Quotes






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Friendship

"Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light."

  • "A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."
  • "Don't be dismayed at goodbyes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetimes is certain for those who are friends."
  • "Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions.  Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great."
  • "A man never discloses his own character so clearly as when he describes another's."
  • "You can't stay in your corner of the forest, waiting for others to come to you; you have to go to them sometimes."
  • "Every man should have a fair-sized cemetery in which to bury the faults of his friends."
  • "A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words."
  • "The reality of the other person is not in what he reveals to you, but in what he cannot reveal to you. Therefore, if you would understand him, listen not to what he says but rather what he does not say."




























































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    Autumn Leaves

    The only way of discovering the limits of the possible
    is to venture a little way past them into the impossible.
    -- Arthur C Clarke






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    Cliff

    Self-reverence,
    self-knowledge,
    self-control -
    these three alone lead to
    sovereign power.
    -- Alfred Lord Tennyson